Learn to enjoy the silence of mind 1
We live in challenging times. On one hand human intelligence
has enabled us to make huge technological advancements. The modern life is comfortable
compared to the olden days. There is constant endeavour to improve the ways to
live the physical existence whereas hardly ever a thought is spared for
spiritual development. Often the word spiritual rings wrong bells and it is
always associated with religion. However, Spiritual development is our
connection with our inner self. It is our ability to establish a rapport with
our inner self to contemplate on existential questions such as who am I? Why I am
here? Our understanding of our self is limited to our name, title, professional
degrees accumulated over the years, social status in the society etc but no effort is ever made
to question why this existence.
We are preoccupied by associating I am Mr.ABC or Ms XYZ, name,
social role, and job position but ill concerned that beyond that outer
personality there is inner consciousness. We go about our life planning for
achievements in terms of income; home etc which is not a bad thing but the
reality of our existence is whatever external things we accumulate we will have to
leave them in this world when death knocks our door. Therefore, while planning investments
and working towards its achievement, there should be a plan to walk on the path
to reach the inner self. It is an investment without cost. There is no need of a broker
or expensive schemes. This path to inner world does need not any cash
investment, neither mastercard nor visa card nor interest free terms. It
is free; it is open to all without any distinction of religion, race or social
status. It is absolutely free and that’s the best part of it.
It is just investment of time from our daily life which take
us long way.
Establishing this connection with the inner self at an early
age is extremely important as it will lead to a balanced life, success in
education, career, relationship and most importantly finances. There is too
much attraction to the external world. It is lucrative, it can be felt; it
gives a sense of life but only when the focus of mind is taken from outwards to inwards
it will make the mind still.
Once this rapport with inner self is established, it yields
unbelievable results. To mention a few: peacefulness, better anger management,
improvement in food habits, contentment, deep sleep, stress management, reduced
consumerism, more connectivity to people around without the need of gadgets.
Moreover, it will lead to better health conditions, ability to appreciate
simple life, to love and discover nature. Wow isn’t it tempting.
Just a daily practice of 15-20 minutes of sitting in silence
is required. This silence is so addictive that none of the mind altering drinks
or drugs can give that pleasure and the effect is it enables to function in an
uplifted state.
Everyone should meditate. Meditation is not about being a
Hindu or a Buddhist. It does not require you to shave your head, wear saffron
robes rudraksha beads or marks on the forehead or become vegetarian. Meditation
is all about connecting to the higher self. It is just an art of stilling the mind.
We can sit still physically but our mind cannot sit still easily. In our modern
life we have stress due work, rising cost of living, lack of rest which
manifests in health problems such as migraines, indigestions, backaches, knee
aches, heart diseases and cancer. We relax physically by sleeping or taking a
day off work but de we ever relax our mind or relax internally. Have you tried
any tricks to relax your mind? So
meditation is an art to relax internally.
Here are a few ways to get this practice started:
You can do this at night time before sleep or early in the
morning:
Sitting down comfortably by supporting your back against a
wall. Keeping the body loose breathe in gently count up to 4/5/6 counts as you
inhale and exhale to double count of 8/10/12 for about 10 minutes.
Closing the eyes, keeping the body relax, let the vision turn
inwards. Keep breathing in gently and breathing out gently. While the process
of breathing goes on let the attention be focussed on rise and fall of
breathe in the abdomen. If thoughts disturb or mind gets into thinking, focus the
attention back on breathe. As the
attention begins to focus on the breathe, mind will stop wandering. The very moment
attention is focussed on rise and fall of breathe in the abdomen, inner
connected is established. Try it for 15-20 minutes at least and gradually
increase the time
Initially, the focus will be shorter but with perseverance, it
will get better. Remember any medication or fitness regime needs regularity to
show results. Mind has to be trained to behave
itself. Once a habit of mind is developed it will stop wandering and turn its
focus inwards.